What’s Life Without a Little Heartbreak?
It was several minutes before the clock stuck midnight. Almost New Year. We stood there smiling at each other. Curiosity sparks in his eyes and he asks what my NY’s resolutions are. After ruminating for a while, I respond honestly, “To be more open.” What I meant by that was to have an open mind and heart, to embrace new things as they come, to not be so sheltered. Understanding and compassion pooled in his eyes as he leaned in to kiss me. Sparks flew. It felt magical. I was floating on cloud nine. And for the months that followed, I followed through in executing my NY’s resolution. Slowly opening myself up to new experiences….to the feeling of affection for this white knight. But now it seems like a lost cause, a figment of my imagination. Somewhere along our journey together, we lost sight of one another. It was like we suddenly fell out of sync, reading different pages from the same book. I was a beat ahead as he fell behind; he passes me and suddenly I’m lost. Perhaps my white knight had different intentions when we first met on that fateful New Years night. What I know for certain is that for a brief period, I thought I glimpsed the beginning of something new and enriching. Perhaps Love? No, silly, love happens to others, not you. The doors to my heart begin to shut again. The shutters come down, Cupid’s harp stops playing. The mind knows what is best. The problem is to silence the heart. 
 
-Jenny

What’s Life Without a Little Heartbreak?

It was several minutes before the clock stuck midnight. Almost New Year. We stood there smiling at each other. Curiosity sparks in his eyes and he asks what my NY’s resolutions are. After ruminating for a while, I respond honestly, “To be more open.” What I meant by that was to have an open mind and heart, to embrace new things as they come, to not be so sheltered. Understanding and compassion pooled in his eyes as he leaned in to kiss me. Sparks flew. It felt magical. I was floating on cloud nine. And for the months that followed, I followed through in executing my NY’s resolution. Slowly opening myself up to new experiences….to the feeling of affection for this white knight. But now it seems like a lost cause, a figment of my imagination. Somewhere along our journey together, we lost sight of one another. It was like we suddenly fell out of sync, reading different pages from the same book. I was a beat ahead as he fell behind; he passes me and suddenly I’m lost. Perhaps my white knight had different intentions when we first met on that fateful New Years night. What I know for certain is that for a brief period, I thought I glimpsed the beginning of something new and enriching. Perhaps Love? No, silly, love happens to others, not you. The doors to my heart begin to shut again. The shutters come down, Cupid’s harp stops playing. The mind knows what is best. The problem is to silence the heart.

 

-Jenny

Asian-Americans Today - Reflection on NYC ECAASU Conference

My ECAASU registration ID was 360. I think this accurately describes my experience at the conference this weekend: a truly 360 degree and eye-opening experience. I met student activists and connected with notable Asian-American leaders that have helped pave way for Asian-American students that aspire to make a difference in the realm of politics, business, the arts, etc. (areas where we are underrepresented). The weekend provided a unique opportunity for attendees to collaborate on developing innovative ways to engage interest for Asian-American issues at our respective universities and communities.

One of the most memorable moments of my trip included speaking with the students at Wellesley College and sharing in their excitement over the recent approval of an Asian-American studies minor. It was a major milestone given that it took 20 years of advocating on behalf of students, community leaders, and certain faculty members. That’s two whole decades or the equivalent of my entire life at this point! And so this made me wonder…..why the delay and why not at more universities? I have several explanations:

1)    We don’t have enough Asian-American leaders at top levels that can champion for us. Unless we are at the table providing input on key decisions, our efforts in effectively addressing Asian-American issues will be more difficult. I’m not however, saying that grass-root efforts are futile. All I’m asking is where is our MLK equivalent?

2)    There is not enough demand. With this in mind, fellow students, this is a call to action! Be the change that you want to see. How did you think Wellesley College was able to finally get their approval? The students participated in sit-ins, campaigned, and were relentless in pushing for change.  

3)    The Asian culture of passivity, respect, and indirectness is doing more harm than good. Look at how the public views Asian-Americans: as the mute “model minority.” This suggests that we don’t need to change and that we have lived up to others’ expectations, not our own. This is problematic because it stifles change and reinforces stereotypes. I think the new generation of Asian-Americans are fierce, ambitious, and tired of being ignored. Also, we’re tired of being what others expect us to be.

No one is going to champion for us if we don’t believe in our own work and selves. ECAASU reminded me of the importance for Asian-American figures to be active community leaders. It’s important for us to see and be seen and that really starts with the individual.

4)    We don’t have all of our ducks in line. Many groups of Asians fall under the umbrella of Asian-American: Chinese, Korean, Pilipino, Vietnamese, etc. The reality is that we’re very different despite all being Asian. Often times, these inter-cultural group differences can be more of a barrier to collaboration and hence advancement of the Asian community as a whole. With this in mind, I believe this presents new opportunities for different types of Asians to work together better.

In closing, I came across a touching quote while reading A-List, a cutting edge publication that brings mainstream attention to Asian-American leadership and excellence: “Your life’s work begins where your great joy meets the world’s great hunger.” – Kate Bronstein.

I believe I’ve found my great joy this weekend at ECAASU.

By: Judy Tat

fascinasians:

DeadlineThursday March 29th at 11:30pm EST, but interviews will be assigned as early as this week, so it would be in your best interest to submit as early as possible.

What does the National Board do? Click to see.

ECAASU, the oldest and largest Asian American student organization in the country, has enjoyed over 34 years of education, advocacy, and activism. Right now, ECAASU is on the cusp of taking on a new direction and this is your chance to become apart of making history.

We are looking for a team of passionate, open-minded students and young alumni who can take the initiative on advancing a variety of issues, work well with a variety of different personalities, and be willing to meet students from every part of the country. We ask that you bring your personality to the table and show us why you belong at the crossroads of the Asian American movement.

We’re looking forward to meeting you.

- The ECAASU Directorate

Executive Associate Director – Strengthen National Board cohesion; assist in building Conference Board relations; travel to host school of annual conference prior to conference. In the event the National Board Executive Director is unable to fulfill his/her duties, the Executive Associate Director will be promoted to serve as National Board Executive Director until the next election.

Associate Director of Advocacy – Lead the Advocacy coordinator(s) on advancing APIA issues around the country and lead the Asian American Studies initiatives of ECAASU; collaborate with students, faculty members, and professors to maintain an Asian American Studies network; pursue civic engagement projects such as voter registration; keep up with and report on any APIA issues as they develop; formulate and advise upon official ECAASU policy positions;

Advocacy Coordinator – Research and advance specific APIA issues around the country; advise as an expert on those issues for the National Board; pursue projects to further advance the Asian American Studies initiative of ECAASU and civic engagement. NOTE: If you feel passionate about a particular issue, specify it in the space below.

Associate Director of Communication – Create a strategy to promote and facilitate the growth of outreach programs, publications/articles, and events; liaise between Conference and National Boards; review publications written by or about ECAASU National; send out online newsletter; create and compile a publication/journal each semester; collect social media data.

Events Coordinator – Facilitate the organization of regional mixers and other events; in charge of documentation and archiving these events through pictures, articles, videos, and/or any other innovative methods; collect event data and feedback.

Outreach Program Coordinator – Lead efforts to network and collaborate with multiple community groups on policy initiatives, volunteer events, and networking opportunities; guide ECAASU programs such as Campus Ambassadors, Interns, and Alumni, compile database of community groups.

Social Media Coordinator – Update the ECAASU website & blog, Facebook, twitter and other social media platforms; collect announcements for online newsletter; archive past ECAASU websites; develop creative and ambitious strategies to promote ECAASU and its activities over the internet.

Associate Director of Development – Create and implement a fundraising plan; manage the annual budget based on funds given by the Directorate; work with the Conference Board on a sustainable conference budget; grant writing skills not required but a plus.

Development Coordinator – Seek out and secure new sponsors (e.g. sources of funding) whose missions and goals align with those of ECAASU’s; grant writing skills not required but a plus.

Fellow – Check this if you are unsure of what position you would like but would still want to be a part of ECAASU National. You will work with members of the National Board in accomplishing a variety of general tasks including: advocacy, development, outreach, research, and maybe saving the world.

Some of the coolest performances at the 2013 ECAASU conference. From top to bottom: Jason Chen, Ellen Kim, Clara C, iLL-LiTERACY, and David So. Be sure to check out next years conference held in DC!

-Jenny

“Where is the Asian Reverend Al Sharpton?” journalist Richard Lui’s voice bellows into the audience of 1200+ students attending the 2013 ECAASU conference. His tone is piercing and powerful, meant to move the audience into action. And as he continues, his speech always reverted back to this central question: “Where is the Asian Reverend Al Sharpton? Somewhere between the 3rd and 4th time he asks this, something in me snaps. 
“Where the f*** is he/she?” some inner voice in me demands. So right at that pivotal moment (what I term the ahh hahh) as I sit in the audience with my fellow Asian American sisters and brothers, I vow to become a better me, to be the Asian American voice in my community. I vow to stir conflict not for the sake of being combative but to make progress for my generation. If you’re down for the cause, come along for the ride and be the change you wish to see in your community. 
-Jenny

“Where is the Asian Reverend Al Sharpton?” journalist Richard Lui’s voice bellows into the audience of 1200+ students attending the 2013 ECAASU conference. His tone is piercing and powerful, meant to move the audience into action. And as he continues, his speech always reverted back to this central question: “Where is the Asian Reverend Al Sharpton? Somewhere between the 3rd and 4th time he asks this, something in me snaps.

Where the f*** is he/she?” some inner voice in me demands. So right at that pivotal moment (what I term the ahh hahh) as I sit in the audience with my fellow Asian American sisters and brothers, I vow to become a better me, to be the Asian American voice in my community. I vow to stir conflict not for the sake of being combative but to make progress for my generation. If you’re down for the cause, come along for the ride and be the change you wish to see in your community.

-Jenny

ECAASU 2013

Lately, discussion topics in my classes have centered on the rise of China and its implications for the world order. As an Asian American having only travelled to China once, I realized just how naïve I am about this massive country of 1.3 BILLION inhabitants. China is in my DNA; my descendants hail from Guangzhou and yet having grown up in the U.S., my understanding of China has always been from a western perspective. So the overarching question I struggle with is…How Chinese am I on the one hand, and how Chinese American am I on the other? Is it wrong to feel a closer association with one over the other? And what I begin to uncover is that I value different aspects in both cultures and try to incorporate the best of both into my life.

In the spirit of celebrating my roots, I’ll be attending the annual East Coast Asian American Student Union (ECASSU) conference this weekend! Wow, that was a mouthful. Held at Columbia University, it’s expected to draw a large and diverse crowd, which will make for a memorable experience. Stay tuned for a follow-up!

-Jenny

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The field of Retail can be golden…until you’re left to clean up the pieces. Time to close down Go! Calendars, Games & Toys at Stony Point Mall! What a memorable season indeed.

- Contributed by Jenny

Behind Every Great Entrepreneur

Behind every great entrepreneur stands a great team.  Behind every great company stands an incredible workforce. Employees are the unsung heroes. I really believe that.

Wow. It’s finally over. Well almost. Stony Point is officially closed but now comes the fun part: boxing merchandise and tearing down fixtures. Kudos to all the volunteers that will be dedicating their Saturday helping us.  We are truly thankful.

This brings me to several key lessons that running my first franchise has taught me:

1)   “Plans don’t work.” – Talk is cheap. What really matters is you ability to carry through with your promises.  You can spend all the time planning, but more often than not, things always go wrong. A successful person is one that can improvise and think quickly on their feet.

2)   “It’s not just about money. “ – My goal as an entrepreneur is to defy conventional wisdom and to create meaning in life. For instance, who says we need to buy a new home when we can share one? What about a grocery store without shopping carts or check-out lines?

Strive to create true value for customers by transforming the way they think, feel, and behave aka their lifestyle. Strive to create a unique experience and the money will follow.  

3)   “Perfection is impossible.” – No matter how many hours you put into something, no matter how many times you add, subtract, adjust something, there will always be room for improvement. Do not strive for perfection because you will only end up disappointed in the end. Instead, strive for incremental improvement in all that you do.

4)   “You succeed, we succeed.” – When our employees are having a bad day, they don’t bring their full selves to work. Consequently, our customers don’t get the type of service they deserve. Thus, do all you can to make sure that your employees are successful. Your success certainly depends on their well-being.

-Contributed by Judy

Life is a hodgepodge of blurry memories. However, every now an then it’s sprinkled by magical moments that take your breath away. It is these “ahh hah” moments that I cherish most because it reminds me just how worthwhile life can really be. There’s nothing like new year to start anew and seize opportunities. Welcome 2013!
-Contributed by Jenny

Life is a hodgepodge of blurry memories. However, every now an then it’s sprinkled by magical moments that take your breath away. It is these “ahh hah” moments that I cherish most because it reminds me just how worthwhile life can really be. There’s nothing like new year to start anew and seize opportunities.

Welcome 2013!

-Contributed by Jenny

The Close of One Chapter
What a riveting few months. Along with my two business partners, we’ve operated our 2 calendar and game stores for roughly 4 months. And sadly, believe it or not, this is all about to end. We’ve came and conquered the world of retail (so I’d like to think), but lets not deny we faced our fair share of hurdles as managers. Restless days were spent running back and forth between the stores to ensure all operations went smoothly and customers were treated well. And to say the least, I’ve learned plenty about how to up-sell and cross-sell products. Give me a lump of coal and I could sell it fast.

I hope to partake in this venture again next season. By then we’ll become better operators, raising expectations even higher for ourselves and our sales team.

So what’s next?…..
-Jenny

The Close of One Chapter

What a riveting few months. Along with my two business partners, we’ve operated our 2 calendar and game stores for roughly 4 months. And sadly, believe it or not, this is all about to end. We’ve came and conquered the world of retail (so I’d like to think), but lets not deny we faced our fair share of hurdles as managers. Restless days were spent running back and forth between the stores to ensure all operations went smoothly and customers were treated well. And to say the least, I’ve learned plenty about how to up-sell and cross-sell products. Give me a lump of coal and I could sell it fast.

I hope to partake in this venture again next season. By then we’ll become better operators, raising expectations even higher for ourselves and our sales team.

So what’s next?…..

-Jenny